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An MBA-studded york pornstar exposes the secrets of her basement, where she spanks department workers in Midtown for lunch.

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Published: 09:18 EST on November 6, 2013 | Updated: 15:30 EST on November 6, 2013

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Looking for a beating during your meal crack in Midtown? Yes, she’ll accomplish that.

And Ms. Renee Trevi, a 27-year-old Russian expatriate working as a ways in Manhattan, has an MBA to sock.

Although it wasn’t always her calling, she admitted it is a far more interesting line of work when she opened up about her job on the kink scene and a unique common performance that started at a Manhattan eatery.

Renee, who is not her real name, made the move to America when she was 18 years old. She eventually earned her MBA and left a$ 50 an hour job in finance to work for$ 300 an hour whipping men.

’ I was getting depressed swiftly because of days in the office, tiresome employment with figures. I knew I had a excellent chance of having a successful profession, and I had to labor hard for it, she said.

MBA in anguish: Renee entered the field of joy after realizing she was ”wasting her career only to invest it working with numbers for a long time with only two days of vacation per season.”

But she said she thought it was’ merely a waste of life really to spent it in the company with only two months of vacation per time.’

” I enjoy spending many months each year traveling the world.” That’s the justification for my MBA. I just had to change something about it. My ultimate goal was to start my own business.

But what came next was far beyond her expectations. She could not have predicted entering the world of BDSM.

It’s like such a hazy subject, I suppose. They believe it to be something bizarre and perverted, but before I started doing it, I thought exactly the same thing. So many people have wrong ideas about it.

” And then a friend of mine said to me at a party,” Why don’t you do that?” My wife is a mistress, and she does it.

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And when he showed me her photos, I was absolutely freaking out. I’m like” What! I’m adamant about using force. I’m not one of those people.

’ But then it kind of got stuck in my mind and I was thinking …” Well, actually I’ve done this thing before and I’ve tried that and it’s kind of fun and it’s not as freaky as I thought. Perhaps I should just take a look at it.

The same person then contacted me, and he introduced me to his wife, who was a well-known former mistress of New York, and she led me to a dungeon where I could see things, and that is how I gradually grew involved.

For the past three years, she has been a mistress. She worked for a service for about two years, but she recently started working freelance, which she said is even better than running her own business.

She said,” I don’t work too much, so it’s amazing.” I’m so happy. I believe that I’m truly so blessed because I do what I love.

Power play: Renee said,” We are never naked, and clients are always naked. That’s what creates the whole power exchange because they see me powerful in my leather and they’re helplessly naked in front of me’

Beyond the dungeon, she has an adventurous spirit. She had 774 skydiving jumps under her belt at the time of this interview, including two naked jumps. Renee is a skydiver, a scuba diver, a shark diver, and a BASE jumper.

She asserts that there are many falsehoods about her line of work.

There is no sexual activity here. There is no nudity involved in it,’ she said. Because they see me powerful in my leather and they are helplessly naked in front of me, that’s what sparks the power exchange. We are never naked, just like clients are always naked. That’s the beginning of it.

People are unaware of what I do, they say. Because people don’t know, they can think anything, including things like it’s perverted, strange, similar to prostitution, and violent. So they can have any ideas they like.

Yes, there is violence. That’s probably the most well-liked one. It has nothing to do with real aggression or violence. It’s so mutual. I never do anything that my client would not like me to do or that would leave a mark on him for the rest of his life. They think it has something to do with aggression and violence,’ she added. I wouldn’t do any of that. It’s certainly not this way, though.

’ I would say it’s really a kind of loving even though it might look the other way. We have a discussion about the session in advance, and I’m very cautious with everything. At the conclusion of it, we give each other a hug.

’ We smile to each other when we say goodbye. If it was a long session, you should always send a follow-up letter to check on him just to make sure he’s doing well. So, it’s really nice.

While there is no sexual intercourse, men do usually masturbate at the end of a session. She does request that they use a condom.

That is the happy ending to them. So, this is the whole pleasure for the men because]in ] their normal sex lives, I mean, they have sex, and it’s gone and it’s kind of quick and boring. However, I’m in charge of maintaining this tension for the entire hour.

But during my session, there are so many things going on, and the guy is excited, feet pumpers but he also has all these fantasies in his head, she said, which is what makes his sex life so exciting in this way.

Excitement: ’ I’m responsible to keep this tension for the whole hour. So, this is the men’s complete pleasure because, in their typical sex lives, I mean, they have sex, and it’s gone and kind of dull.

Because normal sex seems so boring in comparison to all the options, to make it more interesting, exciting, unpredictable, and perhaps even a little dangerous or painful, I believe the sex life of a typical man has to be more diverse than it is.

What happens in a typical session?

He enters,” Well, with a new client.” He lets me know what he enjoys. He tells me all his thoughts, fantasies. And he typically knows in advance what I’m doing, what I can do, and what I can’t do,’ she said.

So he typically describes his ideas within my parameters. So, this way I can create the scenario for one hour or two hours of what we can do. The majority of them desire either physical or psychological humiliation.

She referred to psychological humiliation as ”verbal humiliation.” That’s quite a humiliating thing for a man.’ Create a different person out of them. For instance, as if I were feminizing them. Creating some non-painful scenarios where I humiliate them in different ways.

Does she yell at them? woo them, please?

’ Some of them want a more rough way to be dominated. Not everyone enjoys screams and bad language. Actually, I dislike raising my voice too much. I prefer to do it more of a soft way, but strict at the same time,’ she said. The majority of my clients actually prefer me to be more playful and sensual.

She said there are a number of things that can be done, including what she called ”electrical play,” when it comes to physical humiliation. Electrodes are literally attached to the client’s intimate parts.

She claimed that the process involves” slowly building up the electricity” and that I would simply turn it in and out until they could no longer handle it.

There are all kinds of toys for that. So maybe I can learn more about that,’ she added. But I only recently began doing it.

She added that the tools used were created with safety in mind and specifically designed for this purpose. She’s studied the techniques and won’t attach the electrodes to nipples because if someone has a heart problem, it could be very dangerous.

What has anyone ever asked her to do that was the most outrageous?

For instance,” to keep them as my real slave,”” to keep them.” But yeah, a lot of guys want to make it real and most of the guys don’t want to do just the sessions like a commercial exchange. They want me to live forever as their slave. That’s also a well-known one, but I won’t do it because I don’t want it to be my full-time job, she said.

She generally puts her clients in three categories- masochists, those who like more psychological role playing, and fetishists. She recently became aware of a phenomenon known as a ”giant crushing fetish.”

They have this notion of a woman crushing something with her high-heeled shoe in their dreams. Like a little]thing ] can be anything. For instance, a little insect can be watched, which is what excites them, she said.

Misunderstood: Renee asserts that bondage is a form of loving and that she frequently hugs her clients despite the suffering she experiences.

Thrill: Renee says most of her clients are men in their 40s, many have wives, careers and a family who can’t live the BDSM lifestyle but satisfy their sexual desires with a lunch-time hour-long spanking or two a week

Watching her crush a tiny object with her foot is what really appeals to them, they say. That’s one of the fetishes they have, then. Any he doesn’t want anything else but just to watch that.’

The client brings his own bag of items to be crushed, some of which include live fish.

Her clients are who?

Most of her clients are married men in their 40s.

When they are working and have a family, they can’t really live this lifestyle, despite their best efforts. Therefore for them, it’s easier to view me a few times per year than to just come on schedules and go to events and other sociable creepy activities, she said.

The ones who are not married, in public, may possibly manage to go to various parties and lead a more creepy lifestyle. However, those who are married must keep such issues a secret.

Midtown is where the majority of the productions and dragons are located. Because her theater is close to Penn Station, it is easy for her customers.

” A lot of them really come over for lunch.” She said that a normal meal beating, for instance, is one.

But her meetings can be a bit secret. In a conference involving a buyer in the area on organization, this was the event.

She said,” I had a truly interesting conference. A person told me that he wanted to hold a common conference, anything I hadn’t done before, and I’m considering starting to promote it because I was therefore inspired by his notion.

The treatment began at a diner on Madison Avenue in the 20s. She prefers hardly to specify which single so as to avoid causing difficulty for the creation.

She said,” He created the entire responsibility perform incident like we are going on a deaf deadline, and I’m a philosophy professor who studies intimate names.”

So I approach him [at the restaurant ] and begin slowly subduing him by urging him to use the restroom and bring on these panties and a bra for me. In the bathroom, he goes to change, returning with a pair of panties and a bra.

She claimed that the bra was clearly visible underneath his shirt.

And then I go to the bathroom and take his drink, and then I return it, and I tell him,” You have to drink this one.” This is the cocktail you’re drinking.

When I put his belt around his neck, he suddenly appears to be walking away from me. And people can observe it all… Because a lot of people can see what we are doing, it causes a lot of tension and excitement, I suppose.

Secrets: Renee claims that her favorite aspect of the job is how men impart their fantasies, confiding in her with everything in their lives. I enjoy learning about their secrets, she said.

We then travel to Victoria’s Secret, where I try to find him a corset. So I asked the ladies in the store what kind of corset I wanted, and I responded,” I’m looking for the one for this man here.”

They are enticing him to what size corset he wants, but he says he doesn’t know. like” I don’t know my size.” And they ask,” What size bra are you wearing?” because they can see through his shirt to see his bra, and he feels so embarrassed and scared. At Victoria’s Secret, we have a whole scenario where we can change into girls ’ clothing. I therefore begin speaking with him instead.

I finally tell him,” Let’s go to my studio,” which is where I work as a researcher and do everything. So we leave for my workplace, and he discovers that it’s a dungeon, but it’s already too late because I tied him up.

And what aspect of her job is her favorite?

Everyone has to play a certain social and family role, right?” That people just can be so open with me.” However, it’s not always what they’re trying to accomplish. When they return to see their wives, they don’t always feel like being a nice husband.